What is it with DOCTORS

Here we are me and my four year old, at the doctors for 8.30 am, he's been driven mad by his bottom and his stomache burning for the last 6 weeks he has also being messing himself, which is unheard of, he has has been toilet trained since he was 2 years old,
THe doctor arrived when we had been waiting 4 minutes he called us in 12 minutes after my appointment time, no apology.  Then it began, they don't look at the history, they don't realise that you only bring your child when it's a last resort, he does not have a temperature, I know that he's not ill as such just his bum driving him crazy and his stomache, he then made me feel like the dirtiest mother in the world, how often does  he bath, what does he eat, when does he eat, ohhh he does have a balanced diet then, who baths him, in our case shower him, I do every night just about , does he wash himself, yes and then I shower him, when did you last change his bed and on and on, I find myself saying we are clean and he is looked after,  so in the end he sends me away with worm medicine todo twice in he next two weeks, I would not mind but he was wormed about 4/5 weeks ago, and I watched my son at the doctors door, bending and trying to be comfortable in his clothes and I thought here we bloody go again, I know my son , I know he is probably stool controlling(which is we're they donot go to the toilet when they need too) due to them being busy or deeply involved in their activity which in my sons case is the ipad, he screams at night for a cold drink saying his tummy is hot and lays on a cold leather piller to cool it down, I remember yesterday when we went to town and the boy was that uncomfortable he could not walk or stand properly and I feel so mad!!!!!!!!!!!!, if I lived at the doctors week in and week out I could understand it, but I dont, 3rd time round mummy, one autistic son, who had worms a lot growing up, yet I still feel like that neurotic mother, who does everything wrong, they make me feel like that.....so I'll try again the bloody worm medicine and see what happens!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!